InnerWillow
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* Premature ejaculation?
* Erectile dysfunction?
* Delayed Ejaculation?
* Addiction to porn and release?
* Feeling desensitized and only achieving orgasm through hard and fast stimulation?
* Arousal gained externally with limited internal body and energy awareness?
* Trouble connecting intimately with self and lovers?
* Body or Sexuality shame? Guilt? Fear?
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* Ready to re-pattern the body's pleasure map from habitual pathways and learn sexual mastery?
* Ready to learn just how much more there is to be experienced in life when you cultivate your sexual energy as life-force energy to fuel your passion, purpose, embodiment, consciousness and power in the world?
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Sacred sexuality has always been practiced with the intent of transforming sexual energy into a higher, spiritualised, personal experience of oneness, or union with divinity
Sarah Louise is a nurturing, intuitive, Sexual Healing Practitioner and Therapeutic Coach. She brings integrity, magic, presence and heart to all her clients and sessions.
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She holds the safest and most powerful space for men to reconnect with the true power, potency and wisdom of their life-force energy through profoundly transformative embodiment sessions.
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Client Etiquette- Please read through following carefully!
My intention for this work is to provide authentically empowering and transformational sexual education and experiences. I only wish to work with people that are open to learning and receptive to new ideas.
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~ You understand this is a professional therapeutic service. I do not offer a Sex Worker Service - I do not offer relief massage or a 'rub and tug' service, nor oral or sexual intercourse.
~ Whilst the sessions may at times be sexually charged and intimate you are happy and willing to respect me and will not try to “take” from me, such as touch me in ways that have not been consensually agreed upon.
~ Please respect my time. If you think you are going to be more than 5 minutes late please notify me as soon as convenient.
~ I do not get naked.
~ Do not have heavy foods for at least 2 hours prior to your appointment.
~ DO NOT arrive intoxicated or influenced by alcohol, marijuana or other drugs -you will be sent away.
~ Please arrive freshly showered or be ready to shower when you arrive.
~ Please leave yourself unhurried time after your session to integrate and go gently.
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“What a difference these sessions make. I feel more aliveness and clarity with my sexuality than ever before. I’ve been supported and guided to explore the depths of myself in ways that have brought forward super pleasurable experiences in my sex life and beyond. My orgasms are HUGE and incredibly satisfying, I can move and channel my sexual energy around my body or into my life’s work with a more ease full intention.
My body feels more easily nourished.
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Performance in and out of the bedroom feels on point.
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Intimacy feels way more accessible and free.
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I feel easy more confident in being more of myself to my family and the world.
..Sarah, thankyou for holding me in this exploration. Super grateful for the unconditional heart you have within you”
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R, 37, ACT
Sessions:
Tantric Masculine Honouring Ritual - 2hrs $350
($50 every consecutive half hour)
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These sessions focus on dropping out of your head and deeply into the magic and wisdom of your body. They include meditation, guided tantric breath and sounding, full-body massage including lingam and external prostate massage, and sensory experiences designed to activate and awaken your capacity to feel pleasure and orgasmic energy throughout your entire being.
For many men, there can be significant pressure and insecurity surrounding sex and pleasure, with expectations to "perform," "have and keep an erection," or "be the best she’s had." In these sessions, we get to release all of that, allowing you the time and space to surrender, let go, receive, and feel more deeply connected to your own body awareness, arousal, and inner sensations. When men overly rely on external or visual stimuli—such as women or pornography—they often disconnect from the more subtle experiences occurring within themselves. This disconnect can lead to touch becoming unconscious, habitual, and goal-oriented (alone and with other), resulting in quick, friction-based "sneeze orgasms." This pattern for men often develops in puberty when testosterone increases in an enormous surge. Testosterone is an incredibly powerful procreative and penetrative energy, that on a biological level wants to seed. With no education, conversations or initiations for this potent time, boys revert to dispelling and releasing that energy quickly in secrecy by whatever means he can, and the continuation of this behaviour pattern creates a strong mind-body circuitry of the need to "rinse and repeat." Even if this method as an adult has now become problematic and unsatisfying.
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These sessions are not about removing quickies from your menu; rather, they support you in creating a smorgasbord of choices and expanding your range of options. We work to re-pattern, re-print, and re-sensitize your body-mind-energy connection, increasing your capacity to remain deeply connected to yourself, so you can remain anchored, conscious and attuned to your experience, and therefore power, when you engage sexually with self or other. When sexual energy is self-sourced, it feels expansive and nourishing. In contrast, when it is purely outsourced—arousal being 'dependent' on external/visual factors to generate and feel pleasure—you may find your orgasms depleting, as what you experience is merely the temporarily relieved state of partially fulfilling an addiction to your own hormonal and chemical release.
These sessions can help you learn the embodiment and mastery of your sexual energy, circulating energy throughout your body and expanding your capacity to be with, and journey with, that energy when it is not localized solely to the genitals. When energy is free to flow through the entire body, we gain access to more of our power, presence, and pleasure, tapping into the true potentials of our life-force energy and its benefits both in and outside of the bedroom.
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Sacred Spot and Sexual Mastery Sessions – 2.5hrs $400
($50 every consecutive half hour)
This is a Tantric honouring ritual as above, though it also includes ‘Sacred Spot’, which for a man is his prostate gland. Working with a man’s sacred spot, internally through the anus releases tremendous amounts of emotional and physical tension and stress. Benefits may include:
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~ Improved erectile function and circulation, increasing blood flow, seminal fluid, eases ducts releasing fluid and energy blockages.
~ Intensifies orgasms, just like a women sacred spot is her G-spot, a male can access heightened states of pleasure through his sacred spot.
~Reduced risk of prostatitis and prostate cancer
~This is also where men hold unexpressed and suppressed emotions such as shame, guilt, anger, and fear, so as well as being deeply pleasurable it can also be a deeply cathartic process to receive, and surrender to, sacred spot healing.
~ Open and activate energy channel to awaken life-force flow.
~ Re-pattern body and neural pathways to accessing pleasure, breaking habitual patterns of genital friction rubbing ‘short peak and deplete orgasms.
~ Integrate feminine polarity - capacity to receive, surrender, feel, connect and be vulnerable.
When men can deeply feel and connect with themselves in this way, rest in the depth of vulnerability to experience the level of surrender and safety required to open in receiving penetration, he can imprint more sensitivity, attunement, presence and consciousness when bringing his powerful penetrative energy to lovers, as this is the vulnerability and softening he is asking of those who open to him.
~ It’s unfortunate, especially in Australian society, that there has been much shame and negative association of anus exploration being ‘gay’, it's devastating that homophobia exists at all, but it's a fact that many men completely miss exploring and experimenting with this highly erogenous/sacred gateway in their bodies.
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Sessions can also include coaching/counselling and education depending on your unique needs and intentions
"...My self esteem was pretty low. I was apprehensive coming in to the appointment as my self image about age and weight was also getting me down. Meeting Sarah was a little intimidating at first because she is a very attractive lady. However I very quickly felt at ease as I didn't feel any judgment of any sort and just felt such a warmth and a welcoming spiritual place. I instantly felt myself relax in her presence..."
"I know I'm sounding overly dramatic but I honestly feel like I was touched by someone not of this world but of a much more beautiful place."
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Mat, 50, ACT
"Sarah Louise guided me in transcending the immediate desires to a state of Devine bliss. Sarah Louise is a true goddess”
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O, Male Client, age 50
Multidimensional Awakening Sessions - 4hrs $600
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These sessions combine coaching, education, timeline therapy, hypnotherapy, lingam and sacred spot massage (depending on client needs/boundaries), and energy-activating processes through breath and sound, enabling men to delve deeply into a matrix of body, mind, heart, and spirit. You will be supported to tap into, feel, and express suppressed emotions, freeing up energy in the body and mind from places of fear, shame, guilt, judgment, and suppression.
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These sessions are effective for moving beyond the dominance of the cognitive brain and dropping into the intelligence of the body, which has an innate capacity to heal, metabolize, and resolve stuck material. We create an environment of support and permission for the body to organically reveal where unconscious blocks, patterns, and limiting beliefs have accumulated, allowing you to bring awareness, compassion, and resources to empower new desired results and behaviors.
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There are few spaces for men to be deeply witnessed, held, and supported in their most vulnerable and honest states, completely free from judgment, and this is precisely what Sarah Louise offers. She provides attuned guidance and reflection, placing a strong emphasis on the client's active involvement in these sessions as we experientially explore the dichotomy of pain and pleasure and contraction and expansion. We delve into the emotional pain body, bring awareness to sensations, recognize and work with relational wounds, look at where power is being leaked to addictions and numbing out, play with the give/receive take/allow quadrants in the wheel of consent and find all the ways we can create space within you to live in alignment with your ideal potency, pleasure, and purpose in a healthy and sustainable way.
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You must have booked one of the two above sessions so we both have an opportunity to feel into if this work is the right fit for you.
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"I thought the session may help with some things - I didn't expect it to challenge pretty much everything I thought I knew about my mind, body and the universe.. Maybe I didn't believe it when you said it would transform my reality!
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I fuckin communicated with a spirit animal Sarah!!!!
I previously would have said that's a load of BS. There's now a portal to other possibilities opened, the fabric of my beliefs has been completely torn away and the possibilities lie in plain sight... What have I done?
​Some of my primal, carnal feelings both masculine and feminine during the session were so powerful. I didn't know I was capable of that level of energy - can't get my head around it yet - both scary and exciting.
My interactions with both men and women are already different.
In short I'm bloody unbelievable!"
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Andrew, 54, ACT
